A change in approach and perspective changes everything because it all starts in the mind. Walking in "your" truth brings peace and prosperity, even when it doesn't feel like it at times; reevaluate what you have vs. what you don't have---a change in perspective is a game changer.
Guilt has the tendency to make you sick, for example, trying to impress people with something you do not even possess or have access to---living a lie. Confess if you don't have it all together and work towards what you want. Come to "yourself," your own worst enemy and change the way you think--it is freedom indeed!
The entitlement mentality of "gimme" is a declaration of dependence with plans of not having your own. What you don't earn, you have the tendency to lose, you learn in the process of earning and are more likely to keep it. Stay in your lane and know what you are sent here to do and what you are not called to do. It saves a lot of time, energy, and money and reduces stress tremendously. Find out where you fit and thrive, tend to your business and stop trying to walk in someone else's shadows, it breeds jealousy, envy, and bitterness, which needs to be uprooted on your journey to "your" truth; it also leads to bad health and skin.